Sharing Lives…
“Bring your prom attire to wear for the closing ceremony” of a week out of a teen’s summer vacation spent learning all about government! How lame.
But when the band started playing, the American flag was presented, and the 726 high school senior girls filed in (in their formal wear) escorted by uniformed State Policemen, you couldn’t help but get goosebumps! Surprisingly, I had to fight back tears.
Remember when you learned to recite The Pledge of Allegiance? Most of us probably have the same rhythm and pauses to our way of saying the pledge. (There’s a poetic term for the cadence, but I can’t remember what it is right now). Anyway,
“…one nation (pause), under God (pause)…”
Today I attended the closing ceremony/honor program of the 2005 Hoosier Girls State where my daughter, Alisa, participated in American citizenship, government, and political activities for the past seven days. I learned to say “The Pledge of Allegiance” the HGS way. All the same, but with no pause between “one nation under God.” I was very impressed.
When one of the officials from the American Legion Auxilary recapped the weekly events for us she ended by saying that she hoped each girl now had an understanding of the importance of city-county-state government, respect for their flag and veterans, and more love for God and their country. What a positive influence.
In addition to campaigning for offices, participating in meetings, writing and passing bills and laws, the girls had vespers each evening and Alisa even volunteered to pray at one of her city’s services. Not something I would have expected, but she truly did grow close to all of the girls on her floor (city) and many others, and they all learned to respect each other and honor God together.
She came away from this experience with so, so much more that I ever expected. I see maturity in my child, I see a heart for others and for standing up for what you believe in. It doesn’t all come at once, but little by little they learn. I am so thankful for the privilege Alisa had of being involved in this worthwhile event that taught her the obvious and also to be compassionate and passionate and to fight to keep good and God in her life. And to be grateful. And thankful for her blessings. I see respect for her country and a desire to be a positive influence.
With these encouraging experiences, we can be hopeful that our parenting can be reinforced by the good outside influences that our children come in contact with. It carries weight with an impressionable teen when other people she respects share her family values.
To be honest we had both heard that for some, Girls State is very boring– lots of meetings, large amounts of government and political mumbo jumbo–too much “schooling” for most 17-year-olds’ summer vacations. Maybe for some. And Alisa might have headed in to the week with a little skepticism of what a great time it was going to be. But it ended, Alisa said, as “the best week of my life!”
So far. 